Role Play: How Did Your Friend Get the Black Eye?
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Role Play: How Did Your Friend Get the Black Eye?
How did she get the black eye?
What questions are appropriate to ask when you suspect abuse?
How do you avoid leading questions that might seem accusatory?
What if she refuses to tell you anything?
Speak it out loud and we'll type it for you (free), or type your own notes — then mark yourself below.
- SPIKES for breaking bad news: Setting, Perception, Invitation, Knowledge, Empathy, Strategy.
- Listen → empathise → check understanding → agree a plan together. Calm voice, no jargon.
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- Ask open questions such as 'Are you okay?' or 'Do you want to talk about what happened?' rather than 'Did someone hit you?'
- Reassure her that whatever she tells you will be treated with care.
- If she refuses to explain and you remain concerned, trust your instincts and escalate appropriately.
Mark yourself
Score each skill against the rubric, then add a line of evidence. Scale:
Communication
0/3Demonstrates appropriate open questioning technique
Empathy
0/3Responds with warmth and without judgement
Safeguarding
0/3Knows the limits of confidentiality in this context
Problem Solving
0/3Considers what to do if the friend does not disclose